A relationship shouldn't just exist because two people are "hot." There needs to be a Shared Magnetic North.

The Complement: If one is a chaotic mess, the other doesn't have to be "boring"—maybe they’re just the only one who knows where the fire extinguisher is. 2. Conflict: The "F*ck You" Energy

It sounds like you're referring to a paper with a provocative or typo-filled title (possibly "fucking relationships and romantic storylines"). While I don’t have a specific paper by that exact name, I can point you to a few interesting academic works that explore themes of casual sex, romantic narratives, and relationship dynamics in media or real life:

But if you are interested in a real fuking relationship—one that survives the washing machine of life—you will recognize the end of limerence as the starting line. The romance stops being a feeling and starts being a verb.