Tsuma Ni Damatte Sokubaikai Ni Ikun Ja Nakatta Access

• Tsuma means "wife" or "spouse."
• ni is a particle indicating the direction or the target of an action.
• damatte is the imperative form of dameru, which means "to shut up" or "be quiet." So, damatte means "shut up" or "be silent."
• sokubaikai can be interpreted as "to go to a secret meeting" or could imply going to a place without telling anyone, possibly with a nuance of it being a bad or shameful action.
• ni again indicates direction or target.
• ikun is the imperative form of iku, which means "to go." So, ikun means "go."
• ja (or jā) is a casual way of saying desu (polite form), used for making a statement or giving a command in a casual setting. It can be translated to "is" or used for emphasis.
• nakatta is the negation of datta (the past tense of de aru), meaning "was not" or indicating negation in the past.

The regret is not about the money spent or the time wasted. It is about the realization that the joy of the convention is inherently shareable, but he chose to isolate it. He denied his wife the chance to understand his passion, and he denied himself the chance to be known fully.

• Example: After spending too much on doujinshi, someone mutters the line with a laugh, indicating mild regret about cost rather than relationship.

• Personal and Shared Spaces: Respect each other's spaces and boundaries. Decide together what is acceptable.